rape victims are a burden
they’re an inconvenience
if ppl don’t want to talk about preventing rape, then they damn sure don’t want to talk about the aftermath
if ppl don’t want to talk about what to do with rapists, they definitely do not want to think about what to do with the victims
sure, you can say you’re sorry and tell them to stay strong
but no one really knows how to deal with it
and they don’t learn. who knows if they even want to learn.
who wants to focus on something as awful and pesky and “controversial” as rape bc how can you prove it was really rape anyway, amirite?
esp if there were no scars and s/he was willingly at the location and there was alcohol
yeah so hopefully whoever was really raped will just forget about it soon and keep living their life so we don’t have to talk about it anymore…..
being around sad ppl is not very fun
I can’t wait to see the person that I become after this storm.
How I feel about my post-graduation plans
Sophomore year:Junior year:
A male friend of mine that develops AAA games told me, “When a woman criticizes me, it goes to a different part of my brain than when a man on my team does. I get defensive really quickly. I’m trying to get better about it.” I don’t think his is a unique experience.
We live in a society that’s sexist in ways it doesn’t understand. One of the consequences is that men are extremely sensitive to being criticized by women. I think it threatens them in a very primal way, and male privilege makes them feel free to lash out.
This is why women are socialized to carefully dance around these issues, disagreeing with men in an extremely gentle manner. Not because women are nicer creatures than men. But because our very survival can depend on it.
Yeah, it goes to the “DISMISS ANYTHING WOMEN SAY” part of his brain, while he thinks about doing violence towards her. Men=shit.
A lot of hetero men - when they describe the woman they really fell for (but normally the relationship failed because he abandoned her or cheated or something else) - describe the woman in terms of what she did for him.
Like she put up with my mistakes, she cooked for me, she sexually pleased me, she waited for me, she was faithful to me, she doted on me… she made me feel loved and cared for…
And that’s why the relationship never worked out. The woman was never valued as an individual. She was valued as a commodity. And nobody can remain faithful or keep integrity to what they view as an object of utility.
Can a girl cum without the help of a guy?
Yeah wtf y’all ain’t that special